Remove byte* property in ByteBufferAllocator (#5191)

* Remove byte* property in ByteBufferAllocator.

This allows consumers to read/write into native memory, but without
having to always pin the managed `byte[]` when working with managed
memory. This allows for users to not need to Dispose() ByteBuffers
when they are using the default ByteArrayAllocator class.

Instead, we use `Span<byte> GetSpan()` methods to get access to the
underlying memory buffer.

Fix #5181

* Add a set of benchmark tests.

* Add ReadOnly spans.

This allows consumers to use ReadOnlyMemory<byte> as the backing storage
for ByteBuffers, which is useful in read-only scenarios.

* Run tests using ENABLE_SPAN_T in appveyor.

* Fix FlatBuffers.Test.csproj to work on older MSBuild versions.

* Change the test script to test UNSAFE_BYTEBUFFER

* Address PR feedback.

Remove IDisposable from ByteBuffer.

* Respond to PR feedback.

tests/FlatBuffers.Benchmarks/Program.cs

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+/*
+ * Copyright 2014 Google Inc. All rights reserved.
+ *
+ * Licensed under the Apache License, Version 2.0 (the "License");
+ * you may not use this file except in compliance with the License.
+ * You may obtain a copy of the License at
+ *
+ *     http://www.apache.org/licenses/LICENSE-2.0
+ *
+ * Unless required by applicable law or agreed to in writing, software
+ * distributed under the License is distributed on an "AS IS" BASIS,
+ * WITHOUT WARRANTIES OR CONDITIONS OF ANY KIND, either express or implied.
+ * See the License for the specific language governing permissions and
+ * limitations under the License.
+ */
+
+using BenchmarkDotNet.Running;
+
+namespace FlatBuffers.Benchmarks
+{
+    public static class Program
+    {
+        public static void Main(string[] args)
+        {
+            BenchmarkSwitcher
+                .FromAssembly(typeof(Program).Assembly)
+                .Run(args);
+        }
+    }
+}